Comments on: When expectations can hurt http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/14/when-expectations-can-hurt/ Where wisdom fuels change Thu, 17 May 2012 23:15:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: spaceagesage http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/14/when-expectations-can-hurt/#comment-546 spaceagesage Mon, 14 Apr 2008 06:00:48 +0000 http://spaceagesage.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-546 searchingwithin -- Thanks! I agree we cannot change others, but we always seem to see their areas of growth far more easily than we see our own. searchingwithin — Thanks! I agree we cannot change others, but we always seem to see their areas of growth far more easily than we see our own.

]]> By: searchingwithin http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/14/when-expectations-can-hurt/#comment-545 searchingwithin Mon, 14 Apr 2008 05:25:05 +0000 http://spaceagesage.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-545 Very good article. Very good article.

]]> By: searchingwithin http://spaceagesage.com/2008/04/14/when-expectations-can-hurt/#comment-544 searchingwithin Mon, 14 Apr 2008 05:24:47 +0000 http://spaceagesage.wordpress.com/?p=101#comment-544 I believe it stresses the relationship unnecessarily. Our expectations are ours to own, not someone else's. The quote from John Welwood, you used above, says alot. We choose our husband and friends for who they are. Why then, do we turn around and try to change them. We can not change others, nor should we want to, we can only ourselves. I believe it stresses the relationship unnecessarily. Our expectations are ours to own, not someone else’s. The quote from John Welwood, you used above, says alot.

We choose our husband and friends for who they are. Why then, do we turn around and try to change them. We can not change others, nor should we want to, we can only ourselves.

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