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I skimmed this book awhile back – Radical Collaboration by James Tamm and Ronald Luyet — and found some great quotes I would like to share. I have been bitten by the defensiveness bug myself and have worked with people under its influence as well. I find that these insights give a whole [...]

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Another Tao Te Ching passage that has me thinking these days is number 68. This chapter is about non-striving and non-contenting, even in what are normally adversarial situations. The passage reads:
A good soldier is never aggressive;
A good fighter is never angry.
The best way of conquering an enemy
Is to win him over by not antagonizing him.
The [...]

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I am going through a big change in my life at this sage age of 48, and you are invited to take the journey with me via this blog.
Until now, I led a life of pushing myself by sheer will power; by driving myself with the urgings of perfectionism and my family’s culture of [...]

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